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“YES! ABSOLUTELY!!”

11/29/2017

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Have you ever wanted to hear from God?  Undoubtedly, the answer is, “YES! ABSOLUTELY!!”  Whether it is an employment decision, relationship guidance, or an explanation for tragedy, we have had multiple moments in our lives when we wanted to hear from God.  While God may not speak audibly to us today, He still speaks.  He speaks through His Word and by His Holy Spirit.  The Spirit grants Christians access to the mind of Christ (1 Corinthians 2:11-16).  Even though God still speaks, many Christians don’t hear His voice. 

First Kings 19:11-18 provides us with perspective on hearing the voice of God.  Elijah is depressed and feels abandoned.  The Word of the Lord comes to him and instructs him to stand on the mountain in the presence of the Lord.  As Elijah is on the mountain a great strong wind passes by, but God was not in the wind.  A powerful earthquake and a fire also occur, but God was not in either of those.  Finally there is a soft whisper and behold, God was in the whisper. 

​We want God to yell at us.  We want Him to shout out the solutions to our problems.  We expect Him to scream to get our attention.  So the issue is not that God is not speaking.  I believe the real issue is that we cannot hear Him because we are expecting Him to communicate in a way different from how He typically communicates.  Think about it.  Why do people yell and shout?  It is typically for one of two reasons: there is a great distance between them and person with whom they are communicating, or the environment is so loud that they have to yell.  That means that God shouldn’t have to yell at us. 
James teaches that when we draw near to God, He will draw near to us. God wants us close to Him.  Our relationship with God should be so intimate that we can hear Him whisper to our spirit.  God wants us to have lives that are not full of noise.  Many of us can’t hear God because we are listening to the shouting of the culture.  When we are of the world, we are unable to hear the voice of God.  So if you want to hear God speak, turn off the voices of the world that are creating noise in your spirit.  The noise of busyness, media, worry, and worldliness.  Get to a quiet place.  Then get closer to God.  Draw near to Him; so close that you can hear God whisper.
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America's Ugly Reality

11/19/2017

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Over the last several weeks the ugly reality of abuse and harassment in America has been headline news.  Those who have come forward had been suffering in silence for years, and in some cases decades.  While many have come forward, there are still thousands more who continue to suffer in silence.  Like Tamar in 2 Samuel 13, they have been threatened by their abusers, and encouraged by family members and those in power to keep quiet. 

​In 2 Samuel 13, Tamar is violated by her brother Amnon.  King David, their father, learns of the crime, gets angry, but does nothing.  He does not protect his daughter, nor hold Amnon accountable for his crime.  Absalom, another son of David, tells Tamar not to tell anybody what her brother, Amnon, did to her.  Not only does he tell her to be quiet but he tells her not to let what happened bother her.  Tamar would spend the rest of her life suffering in silence.  She was the victim of abuse, but was treated like the abuser.  She was made to feel that she brought it on herself and contributed to her own victimization.  She spent the rest of her life in a destroyed and ruined state.  She was abandoned by all who could help her, deserted, and in personal poverty.  Absalom took justice into his own hands, but Tamar never got the help she needed.

In our families and in our churches, we have those who are suffering in the silence of desolation.  In some instances, people are aware of the abuse but have told the victim of the abuse not to talk about it.  Victims have been told, “Just get over it.  Don’t think about it.  Don’t let it bother you.”  They are never given validation, and the opportunity to hurt so that they can heal.  Those who could help and should help have abandoned the victims and treated them like they did something wrong.    

Although Tamar’s story ends with her suffering in the silence, that does not have to be the way your story ends.  There is salvation from your suffering.  Understand that what happened to you was not your fault.  There was nothing you did to deserve being violated.  You are still valuable, God loves you, and you can overcome what happened to you. 

Spiritually, bring all your painful feelings and hard questions to God in prayer. Invite Him to minister to you through His Spirit and His Word.  And as He heals you, seek to bring His healing to others. Believe that God has a good future filled with new hope in store for you (Jeremiah 29:11).  Walk into your future one step at a time, knowing that you'll make progress with every step you take.  Additionally, support groups, professional counseling, Christian counseling, and agencies that provide resources to victims of abuse have been proven helpful in assisting people in overcoming the pain of abuse. 

If you are currently in an abusive situation make safety your first priority.  You can call 911 for immediate help.  Develop a safety plan in case you need to leave home quickly. For help call 800-799-SAFE for the National Domestic Violence Hotline or 211.
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The Importance of Time Management

11/8/2017

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Last week I shared six of Dr. George Manning’s time management principles.  This week I will share six more. The comments in brackets are mine. 
  • Learn How to Say No. If saying “yes” helps accomplish important goals, by all means do so. But if saying “yes” prevents you from accomplishing more important tasks, learn to say “no” in a tactful way.  [Many times we cannot say “yes” to Kingdom opportunities because we have not said “no” to secular distractions.  Ask God what are the important tasks you should be doing.]
  • Focus Your Efforts. Mistakes can result from trying to do too many things at once. Often, it is not the quantity of time spent on a project that counts but the quality of time. By slowing down and concentrating on the task at hand, performance can improve. [This can be as simple as putting your phone where you cannot see it or hear it.]
  • Perform Undesirable Tasks When Your Energy is High. I once asked Tibor Greenwalt, a medal of honor recipient and a leader in medical research, “What has been the secret to your success?” He thought for a moment, and with a smile he said, “I always do what I hate to do first. Then, when I turn to what I love, I have a tremendous burst of energy. When I’m doing what I love, the work itself keeps me going.”
  • Plan for Emergencies. Keep your car in good repair and keep extra keys in your wallet. Get up 15 minutes early. Do homework and other important tasks as soon as possible; don’t wait until the last minute.
  • Just Do It. Procrastination is a thief. Ultimately, action is required. The good time manager asks, “What is the best use of my time right now?” and then seizes the moment. As Ben Franklin once wrote, “Well done is better than well said.”
  • Embrace Time Management. Some people resist time management practices, but no other tool has as much potential for improving performance and managing stress.
Adapted from full article available at www.stress-book.com/the-importance-of-time-management/
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Time Management

11/2/2017

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A few weeks ago, I reflected on the importance of planning ahead and making the most of our time.  Dr. George Manning, a professor at Northern Kentucky University, recently shared with me a post that he wrote on time management.  It was a blessing to my life and I want to share excerpts from his article with you.  The following are six of the twelve principles he mentions for effective time management.  Embracing these principles will help us not worry about anything (Philippians 4:6).
  • Set Goals. Good time management begins with goals—knowing what you want to accomplish
  • Set Priorities. When opportunities exceed resources, choices must be made. Nowhere is this more apparent than in the use of time. Use the ABC method to determine priorities:
  • Priority A--Must do. These are vital goals and task; do these first. [Think Kingdom first]
  • Priority B--Should do. Goals and tasks in this category are important but are not essential; do these second.
  • Priority C— Could do. While interesting, these goals and tasks can be postponed; do these third.
  • Use a Daily To-Do List. Write down the tasks you want to accomplish each day, and rank these in order of importance. The small amount of time you invest in doing this will repay you many times over. Make sure your to-do list is on a paper, notebook, or electronic device small enough to carry with you wherever you go.
  • Know Your Values. Nothing is more stressful than being hard-working and efficient on tasks that have nothing to do with your value system. For every task, ask yourself, “Does this support what is really important to me?” The sequence is to identify your values, set goals, and use a prioritized to-do list as a productivity tool.
  • Stay Aligned. When your daily behavior is aligned with your goals, and these goals support your values, you will experience a sense of control and personal integrity.
  • Make Good Use of Waiting Time. In our complex and interdependent world we often run into delays—at the repair shop, in the bank, or at the airport. Be prepared to use this time productively. Reading, writing, thinking, talking, resting, and exercising are all preferable to wasting time.
Adapted from full article available at www.stress-book.com/the-importance-of-time-management/
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